Happiness is...

 In today's world, even though we may be fully conscious of the spiritual emptiness of material attainment, we still need reminders that fulfillment has nothing to do with having possessions. People certainly try the strangest option for attaining fulfillment. They may drink six-pack of beer. They may drug themselves into oblivion. They may alter their bodies to achieve some arbitrary standard of beauty. They may work their whole lives to reach the pinnacle of success, only to have it mercilessly yanked from them in a second. But most sensible people know that there are no easy routes to long-term happiness. If you place your bets on temporary pleasures, you will find only temporary satisfaction. With cheap thrills, you get what you pay for...here today, gone tomorrow. Life isn't about having, It's about being. You could surround all yourself with all that money can buy, and you'll still be as miserable as a human can be. There are people with perfect bodies who don't have happiness they wished for.There are more joy in the slums than in wealthy gated communities.

Why is that?

You'll find contentment when your talents and passion are completely engaged, in full force. Recognize instant self-gratification for what it is. Resist the temptation to grab for material objects like the perfect house,the coolest clothes, or the hottest car. The ...if I just had X, I would be happy... syndrome is a mess delusion. When you look for happiness in mere object, they are never enough.
Look Around. Look Within.

Life and Hope

Life without meaning has no hope. Life without hope has no faith. If you find a way to contribute, you will find your meaning and hope, and faith will naturally follow and accompany you into your future. There is no coincidences in life. Every breath, every step is ordained by God. Even if at times you feel alone, you should know that you are loved too and recognize that God created you out of love. Therefore you are never alone. His love for you is unconditional. He doesn't love u if.....He loves you always. Remind yourself of that when feelings of loneliness and despair come over you. Remember, those are just feelings. They are not real, but God's love is so real that He created you to prove it. Great day ahead friends! grin emoticon

Build Your Life

Life can seem cruel, no doubt about it. Sometimes the bad bricks pile up and you just cant see a way out. You may not like the sound of that, but maybe you still aren't convinced that it can happen for you right now.The fact is that as mere mortals, you and I have limited vision. We can't possibly see what lies ahead. That's both the bad news and the good news. What lies ahead may be far better than anything you ever thought possible. But it's up to you to get over it, get up, and show up! Whether your life is good and you want to make it better, or whether its so bad you just want to stay in bed, the fact is that what happens from this very moment is up to you and your Maker. True, you cant control everything. Too often bad stuff happens to people no matter how good they are. It may not be fair that you weren't born into life of ease, but if that is your reality, you have to work with it. You may stumble. Others may doubt you. But, when you find your true purpose, passion follows. You absolutely live to pursue it. If you are still searching for your path in life, know that it's okay to feel a little frustration. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Your yearning for more meaning is a sign that you are growing, moving beyond limitations, and developing your talents. It's healthy to look at where you are from time to time and to consider whether your actions and priorities are serving your highest purpose. Have an awesome day, Mates!

Self-Acceptence is the Key :)

Everyone goes through times when they feel excluded, alienated, or unloved. We all have our insecurities. Most kids fear they'll be mocked because their noses are too big or their hair is too curly. Adults fear that they won't be able to pay the bills or that they will fail to live up to expectations. U will face moments of doubt n fear. We all do! Feeling down is natural, it is part of being perfectly human. Such feelings pose a danger only if u allow negative thoughts to stick around instead of just letting them wash over u. When u trust that u have blessings, talents, knowledge, love to share with others, u will begin the journey to self-acceptance even if your gifts are not apparent. Once u begin that walk, others will find u and walk with u. Self-Acceptance is the Key smile emoticon Have a good day ahead folks! :)

Pray Hard, Get Up, Fight Back

I'm sure you've had similar moments when u prayed or simply wished for a dramatic change in your life. There is no reason to panic if your miracle doesn't arrive, or if your wish doesn't come true right this minute. Remember, God helps those who help themselves. It's still up to u to keep striving to serve the highest purpose for your talents and your dreams in the world around your. Pray hard and live on! Good day mates!

Injuries of Life

Some injuries heal more quickly if u keep moving. The same is true of setbacks in life. Perhaps u lose your job. A relationship might not work out. Maybe the bills piling up. Don't put your life on hold so that u can dwell on the unfairness of past hurts. Look instead for ways to move forward. Maybe there is a better job awaiting u that will be more fulfilling and rewarding. Ur relationship may have needed a shake-up, or maybe there is someone better for u. Perhaps your financial challenges will inspire u to find new creative ways to save and build wealth. U cant always control what happens to u. There are some occurrences in life that r not your fault or within your power to stop. The choice u have is either to give up or to keep on striving for a better life. Everything happens for a reason and in the end good will come of it. Have an awesome day ahead mates!

Better Person

Too often we tell ourselves we aren't smart enough or attractive enough or talented enough to pursue our dreams. We buy into what other say about us, or we put restrictions on ourselves. Whats worst is that when u consider yourself unworthy, u r putting limits on how God can work through u! When u give up on your dreams, you put God in a box. After all, u r his creation. He made u for a purpose. Therefore your life cannot be limited any more than God's love can be contained. I have a choice. U have a choice. We can choose to dwell on disappointments and shortcomings. We can choose to be bitter, angry, or sad. Or when faced with hard times and hurtful people, we can choose to learn from experience and move forward, taking responsibility for our own happiness. As God's child, u r beautiful and precious, worth more than all the diamonds in the world. U n i perfectly suited to be who we r meant to be! Even still, it should always be our goal to become an even a better person and stretch our boundaries by dreaming big. Adjustments are necessary along the way because life isn't always rosy, but it is always worth living. However desperate your life may seem, there is hope. As bad as circumstances appear, there are better days ahead. Good Day mates! 

Purpose of Life

Experience all the joy n fulfillment God intended for u. If u are one of the many people struggling each day, keep in mind that beyond my own struggles there was a purpose for my life awaiting me. U may hit hard times. U may fall down and feel as though u don't have strength to get back up. I know the feeling, mate. We all do. Life isn't always easy, but when we overcome challenges, we become stronger and more grateful for our opportunities. What really matters are the lives u touch along the way and how u finish ur journey. Good day!